How to control the 7 most critical Facebook privacy settings


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We had a good time putting these Facebook privacy tips together for our friends at Facecrooks and ReadWriteWeb.  If you aren’t familiar with Facecrooks, check them out:  they blog about privacy, online safety and

scam alerts, especially on Facebook.

Onto our tips.  If you only have a few minutes, you can significantly improve your privacy protections on (and off) Facebook with our lucky seven tips.  Let’s get started!

1.  Limit your sharing to friends only

This is THE most important thing you can do with your Facebook privacy settings.  If you’re sharing with “friends of friends,” you’re exposing your info to an average of 150,000 people.  Let’s be serious:  no one has that many friends.  And when your data is open to the public, it can–and does–end up anywhere:  the Girls Around Me app and are two creepy examples.  You can also use Abine’s Social Search to show you just how much of your info is floating around online.

In Facebook, go to “Privacy Settings,” then select “Friends” or “Custom” under the “Control your Default Privacy” header.  You should also go through each individual section below and make sure that you’re comfortable with its settings.

Limit your sharing to friends only.

2.  Stop your friends from sharing your info

Even if your own privacy settings are rock-solid, your info may still be publicly available through your friends.  The career networking app BranchOut provides a good example of how this can happen.  BranchOut requests “your basic info,” plus seven other permissions, including your and your friends’ current locations, your and your friends’ work and education history, and your email address.  Even without your permission, BranchOut can access your data with your friends’ permission.

Go to “Privacy Settings,” then “Apps, Games and Websites,” and edit settings for “How people bring your info to apps they use.”  Uncheck anything you’re not comfortable sharing.

For the greatest privacy, uncheck all the boxes above.

3.  Keep your face out of Facebook’s clutches

After a privacy backlash, Facebook renamed its facial recognition software “tag suggestions,” but don’t be fooled:  tag suggestions are facial recognition.  In Facebook’s own words, “If a friend uploads a photo that looks like you, we’ll suggest adding a tag of you.”  Protect yourself by turning tag suggestions off.

Go to “Privacy Settings,” then “Timeline and Tagging” and select “No One” next to “Who sees tag suggestions when photos that look like you are uploaded?”

Tag Suggestions are just Facebook’s facial recognition system.

4.  Take control over your tags and your Timeline

Would you rather A), let anyone (anyone, not just your friends) tag you in any photo without your approval; or B), be able to look tags over before they’re posted to your timeline?  If you care at all about privacy, B is your answer.  And yes, anyone can tag you now.  Facebook quietly slipped in this tag free-for-all alongside its tag review feature.

With tag review enabled, you’ll start receiving tag notices.  You’ll see them on your home feed as to-do’s, just like pending friend requests, messages, and comments.  You can then review pending tags and choose whether to approve them by hitting the check mark next to the item.

Go to “Privacy Settings, then “Timeline and Tagging,” and switch ON both “Review posts friends tag you in before they appear on your timeline” and “Review tags friends add to your own posts on Facebook.

Review your info before the world can see it.

5.  Limit the audience for past posts

Think of this button as a 1-stop shop to edit the visibility of all of your past Facebook posts.  Anything that was open to the public or friends of friends will change to friends only.

Go to “Privacy Settings,” then “Limit the audience for past posts,” and click the “Limit Old Posts” button.

Limit the audience for past posts.

6.  Put Subscriber Search on private

Facebook now lets others subscribe to your updates–in other words, whatever you’re posting will show up in their home feed.  Unless you turn off Subscriber Search, your posts are open to the public and anyone can subscribe to you, whether you know them or not.  This also means that your “public timeline [will] show up in search engine results and let anyone look up your timeline by name.”

Go to “Account Settings,” then “Subscribers” on the lefthand side of the screen.  Uncheck the box next to “Subscriber Search.”

If you don’t want to show up in search engines, you need to fix this setting.

7.  Stop Facebook from watching you off Facebook, too

Facebook buttons can track you, even off of Facebook. Tell them to stop with Do Not Track Plus.

Facebook’s reach is so widespread that protecting your data requires control both on and off of the giant social network.  You know those Facebook Like and Connect buttons you see on almost every website?  They’re not just for sharing:  they’re tracking devicesFacebook buttons can track both members and non-members of Facebook, even if you never click them.  They transmit your clicks, browsing history, IP address, and more to Facebook. 1,992,780 websites currently use Facebook Like buttons, and that number continues to rise.

But have no fear:  Abine’s free browser add-on, Do Not Track Plus, blocks social button tracking by default.  It stops the buttons from sharing your information even before you click on them.  You can still share, however, but now the choice is yours, not Facebook’s.

To block social button tracking, try Do Not Track Plus for at  It’s available for Firefox, Chrome, Safari, and Internet Explorer, and it’s free.  Learn more at

75 Replies to “How to control the 7 most critical Facebook privacy settings”

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  2. Very helpful and much needed information! Thanks Abine!

  3. Bert says:

    Super information! Thank you!

  4. Floris says:

    Wonderfull! Best spent 5 minutes this week 😉 Keep up the good work!

  5. Nicholas says:

    Under privacy settings>timeline and tagging, the option for “Who sees tag suggestions when photos that look like you are uploaded” says “This is not yet available to you” and the default value is “Friends.” How can I change this to “No One” when this option is not available to me?

  6. Georgy says:

    Thanks man, half of these i didn’t knew they exists:)

  7. Chri says:

    Someone I am not friends with tagged me in a comment on a mutual friend’s post. I looked for the button to untag myself, and it was not there. I looked on my timeline for the post to remove the tag from there and it is not on my timeline. I then looked in my activity log to find the review/approval thing and it didn’t show up there either. I checked my friend’s page and the post, comment, and tag are all still there. This is very disconcerting to me. I want the tag gone, but I don’t want to block the person who tagged me, nor do I even know if that would help. How do I fix this? Or am I doomed to allow non-friends to tag me whenever they want and I can’t stop it or remove it?

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  9. Ah, I’ve been googling a lot before I found this post. Thanks for a good facebook guide!

    • Sarah Downey says:

      Sure thing! And regarding the problem you’re having with DNTMe, make sure you’re using the most recent, upgraded version of whichever browser you’re using (Safari, Chrome, Firefox, or IE), and try downloading directly from If you’re still having problems, let me know–I’m Sarah at Abine dot com.

      • Asad Khan says:

        i want to stop people (who are not in my friend list) to see or read the comments on my profile. i want only my friends can look or read my comments. Help.

  10. I forgot to mention, DNT does not seem to work for me, does it work for you guys?

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  12. Christine R. says:

    A very helpful article. Thanks a lot for the privacy tips.

  13. Cat says:


    Quick question I have added a friend into my close friend list. However I am oy able to see their activity with our mutal friends . Would this be the case for all of that persons friends, or do you pick and choose people?. Thankyou

    • Hi Cat-

      I’m not really sure what you’re asking. Your close friends list could be two things: a list you use to organize the people whose updates/posts you don’t want to miss, or a privacy-restricting tool to limit the audience for a particular post (e.g., “limit this post to close friends”). Making someone a close friend won’t limit your ability to see their activity on Facebook; it makes it *more* likely that you’ll see it. I’m confused about where mutual friends come in to your question.


  14. Nicolai says:

    Very helpful post, Sarah !
    Thank you !

  15. Kae says:

    This is an awesome post, thanks! I do have one more issue that I can’t seem to resolve.

    I don’t want it to show on my timeline when I leave a comment on someone else’s post; is there setting to stop this, or do I have to go to the activity log and delete it every single time?

  16. Steph says:

    I posted a video that is set to my friends only for viewing. Someone on my friend’s list shared my video and on her share, it says it’s shared to her friends only. My question is, is it only our mutual friends that can view her share of my video or is it ALL OF HER FRIENDS???? Please help.

  17. Steph says:

    I just sent post without email address.

  18. Aaronisha says:

    How to stop someone from exposing ur pictures on kik

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  22. shubhanshu saxena says:

    can I choose who can see Post and other things I’ve liked and comment?.

    Can i control notification who p like and comment and then who can get notification

  23. So why all of a sudden somebody im not friends with statuses start showing on my news feed?? Do this mean they keep constantly viewing my profile or something??

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  25. Vicki Cox says:

    What I would like to figure out is how to NOT repost something just because I hit the “like” button or put a comment. Sometimes I click on the “like” something but don’t want to “share” it because it has language in it that might offend some of my “friends”. Also I’ve posted pictures and some of my friends left a comment or hit the “like” button and it re-copied the post and further comments were on their re-post and not on my page for me to see who left comments.
    Thanks for your help….

  26. gloria says:

    I was wondering if the setting for Tagging the same as Sharing a link. I dont see any privacy for “sharing a link” option. Can this be turned off as well. The way I see it it’s the same as tagging someone and still don’t have control over their account 🙁 Help!

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  28. Sherrie says:

    How do I remove the time that states ” on line 3 hours ago” from my profile email?

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  30. Elijah says:

    Helpful 🙂

  31. Jorge says:

    If I tag myself in photos, do other people see my photos and self tagging activities on their “New Feed”?

  32. sumit kumar says:

    Facebook on Thursday began rolling out its “privacy checkup” aimed at helping users of the huge social network better manage sharing their information and postings.

  33. Michael says:

    Thanks for the tips. Next, stopping my likes from showing on friends’ feeds.

  34. johny says:

    How to stop advising my friends list on other friends timeline?

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  36. Lyn L says:

    What about “so and so like this.” Can I stop that appearing on my feed/timeline. They’re posted by friends, but I’ve no interest in seeing photos of great aunt Bertha’s dinner, or what Fred’s neighbour’s cousin’s aunt’s brother’s dog brought home. All I want to see is what my friends are posting about themselves. Thanks.

  37. Man preet angela says:

    My old posts are automaticaly deleted help me pls

  38. orangecrush says:

    I no longer see what posts my close friend likes. Unless it is a post of a mutual friend of ours. Even if the post is set to “public”. Is there a privacy setting to control who sees what posts you like? No the pages you like, the posts you like.

  39. Lala says:

    Hi! I noticed that one of my friends liked a picture of mine but this doesn’t appear on my “Close friends” activity. Is it a bug or my friend can choose that others cannot see his likes? Thank you!

  40. Anonymous says:

    Hi can I ask a question please. My mum has joined Facebook, she’s using an iPad and has only a few friends including me. When I looked on her timeline I realised she can see everything I have ‘liked’ and commenting on and it feels like she’s snooping on me! i have nothing to hide but I can’t believe my mum can see every single thing I’m doing on FB! I don’t know if it’s my settings or hers that needs to be changed to alter this!

  41. dave says:

    ok so I have one friend (in another country) who encourages his friends to make new friends from people on his friends list.

    and now i’m getting HUNDREDS of friend requests from people on his friends list, and I don’t know anyone of them.

    its BEYOND annoying at this point… short of unfriending him… how do I stop this?

    please help 🙁

  42. Lisa j says:

    I’ve been tagged in a post by a friends friend about an event I wasn’t even at! I believe it was a genuine mistake as he actually tagged a lisa j cope on closer inspection! However, I keep coming across the notification asking if I want to post on my time line or hide. So firstly if I ‘hide’ where and who is it hidden from & secondly htf do I get rid of the dam thng keep popping up???
    Having said all of that, I’m now going to try following the security instructions so fingers crossed it won’t be an issue in the future 🙂 I can live in hope haha!
    While I’m at it, if I have photos that only friends can see, how do I stop them being bought to everyone’s attention if 1 person ‘likes’ any of them?

  43. Irene says:

    I know how to share and hide something from certain people but if our mutual friend likes what I post, is there a way to have the hidden person not see that.

  44. Elma khan says:

    I cant share my page album to my friends and groups , when i share its disappear on my mobile screen . Ican face this problem more than 1 month ago.

  45. Leanne says:

    My activity log is showing people and pages I don’t remember searching. How can this happen?

  46. you will have seven days to change your privacy settings or they will be set automatically by Facebook.

    I want to reassure you that Facebook has made it much easier to adjust your privacy settings and decide how you want to handle your Timeline posts. Find the privacy settings on any Facebook page by clicking on the down arrow in the upper right corner. Here are the 3 you should

  47. reneen says:

    gud information, can u help me how can I set my fb privacy, when my friend like my profile pic, cover pic or othr sharing , these all appear on their timelines too, and these are visible to all friend of friends, which I dont want, plz reply

  48. GoldpriceZ says:

    I mean there is no way to hide the last connected time according to my research.


  49. gapsel says:

    Every facebook user need this article in one point. Thank you.

  50. Patty kidd says:

    The scariest is by posting pics with iPhoto- and others Etc. How else to post pics? I cannot believe the info.
    It includes NOTES among other things. Creepy.

  51. Tony To says:

    I think I might have done something wrong as I changed the settings. I can no longer comment or reply on someones post. I am a pensioner that is not very good using FB. Does anyone know what setting I can adjust to fix this problem. Thankyou!

  52. Rich says:

    about to post on someone’s timeline see what’s facebook’s answer

  53. Anonymity says:

    Is there anyway to prevent Facebook from posting to my timeline who and when I tag a person?

  54. arif says:

    can i setup automatically post ..i want to post all my friend post..

  55. Mrins says:

    One of my friends friend views my profile . Is it possible for me to do something when she clicks my profile while searching she is not able to see anything means total blank page

  56. Nina says:

    Hi. Why everyone can see my posts/pictures on facebook even if it is aleady private?


  57. Sascha says:

    With regards to Facebook private groups. Is there any way to completely disable the ‘Add members’ option? The group i question prohibits it and needs members to apply on their own, for verification purposes.

  58. Pat says:

    I want to post (share) something on my timeline that I want my friends to be able to read if they go to my timeline, but I do not want it to be shared with my friends. How do I do that?

  59. krush says:

    only some of my friends are able to share my post whereas others do not see a ‘share’ option. what is causing this and how do I fix it so that all my friends can share my post?

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